I just started year fourteen of my teaching career – year ten with the NCOE school district. As everyone knows, nothing about this year is “normal.” I have to admit, the usual excitement I feel at the beginning of the year has been tainted with fear – both of the virus, and of the unknown. No matter how many years any of us has in this career, we are all brand-new teachers right now. We are navigating new territory. And as amazingly prepared as I feel our district is, the truth is, none of us have a clue how any of this will play out.
And that terrified me.
My students have asked me more than once over the years why I like teaching junior high kids. And I always tell them with a smile that I truly couldn’t imagine doing anything else. I love my kids, and I love reading and writing. Getting to read and write with my kids? My dream job. I also tell them one thing I love about junior high is that no day is ever the same. I never know what they’re going to say or do, or how my lesson is going to go, but after this many years, I’ve learned how to be ready for the unexpected. I thrived on it. I am a planner, and while my weeks were neatly written out in my plan book each year, I always came prepared with extra activities and back-ups in case things didn’t go the way I thought they would. I was ready to drop everything and re-teach if the kids weren’t getting it. I felt I was up for any challenge.
But this?
This is different. So many things to consider. All these new worries, the biggest one of which being my kids’ safety. Yes, unfortunately, we’ve had to worry about their safety in school for a long time now. But not from a virus. All these new rules…all our old ways of teaching essentially thrown out as we prepare for a new era. Not to mention the potential danger of exposing my own family members to this illness. I’ve never considered myself a worrier, but suddenly, I was losing sleep every night because I couldn’t shut off my racing mind. What was best for our students? What was best for our community? What was best for my family?
I realized in the midst of my stress I was struggling to pray. Every night, I found myself trying to give it to God, but my mind would run away with my worry and I couldn’t stay focused. I found myself reading my Bible, but struggling to concentrate. And with each passing day, the peace I usually carried with me slipped further and further away.
Finally, I decided enough was enough.
I got down on my knees and told God I was sorry. I was sorry for letting my situation get bigger than He was to me. I wanted to repent of my fear, but I knew I couldn’t do it on my own. I gave it to Him. God tells us in the Bible we will find Him when we seek Him with all our hearts. Determined to find Him again, I started seeking Him like I never have before. And I’m so thankful for the revival I have in my heart. I can’t even describe it. He is speaking to me in new, amazing ways.
One of my favorite things about the Bible is the way I can re-read it over and over and God gives me new things to take from it every time. It is truly alive and living! I want to share something God put on my heart recently in my study, something that has helped me so much as we try to navigate this strange time.
In Matthew, chapter 8, Jesus and His disciples were in a boat when a great storm arose. The boat was being thrown around with the waves, terrifying the disciples. They thought they were going to die and in desperation, went to find Jesus. To their surprise, they found Him asleep. When they woke Him, “He rose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm” (Matthew 8:26). The disciples were amazed by His power, amazed by the fact that when He spoke, the wind and waves obeyed Him.
This is one of my favorite stories from the life of Jesus, one I’ve shared with my youth group more than once. But what I overlooked time and time again is that in the midst of a life-threatening storm, Jesus slept. I had read that part before, but I chalked it up to exhaustion. He had been traveling around, teaching and healing the multitudes, with huge crowds following Him everywhere He went. Of course He was exhausted.
But as the storm raged, He didn’t sleep just because He was tired – He slept because His mind and heart were full of peace and trust in His Father. While the disciples looked at the storm and ran around in panic, He wasn’t shaken. He rested in total faith.
So we have a choice. We can look at the storm around us and race around in panic, feeding on each other’s anxieties and letting the news and social media work us into a frenzy.
Or we can remember that God is in control. We can remember that nothing about this “storm” is bigger than He is. None of this is a surprise to God. There is nothing in our days He hasn’t already seen. He knows how and when this will all end. And He promises, “I am your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1). He is with us – He will protect us – He will strengthen us. He never promised this will all go smoothly, but He did promise He would never leave us to handle it alone.
I choose to trust Him. I choose to keep my eyes on Him while the storm grows around me and remind myself over and over that He is my refuge and strength. I choose His peace and rest. I choose to focus on the blessings He still puts in my path every day – blessings I often miss when my worry takes center stage, where He should be. That’s what He wants for me – peace. And it’s what He wants for you, too.
With that said, I CAN’T WAIT to see my kids’ faces on Thursday – masks and all. I know they’re going to be rock stars and handle these changes with ease. I pray I can be who they need me to be in all of this: the calm in the middle of the storm. I ask you all to pray over our schools: our students, our teachers and staff, and our communities. Pray for protection and for wisdom to make the right decisions for our students’ well-being and safety. We will get through this, and I believe God will move in big ways this school year. Let’s not let our worry keep us from the many blessings He has prepared for us.